Ozanam Success Stories
Mohammed- Mohammed grew up in Somalia during
the Civil War. He was present through it all, through the murdering,
through the gunfire, through the fire raids. At one time he was
put up against a wall and he thought he would be killed. He escaped
Somalia by walking into Kenya.
He arrived in Kansas City to live with family here (the rest of
his family in Somalia was unable to leave) and had been in hospitals and treatment
centers almost since his arrival. Having dealt with gangs and violence,
he came to Ozanam in order to work on issues of anger and inability to trust
anyone. When Mohammed arrived at Ozanam, he had never shared with
anyone what had happened during his childhood in Somalia or the
trials he had been through. His therapist used creative therapy techniques in order to build trust, enable him to tell his
story and to help him get through the issues that held him back.
The benefits of many different programs at Ozanam worked together in order to give
Mohammed what he needed. He met on a weekly basis with the cultural
diversity group in order to share his story and learn from staff
and his peers. He became involved in the Spiritual
Life Program and learned about life as a Muslim in the
Somali faith community and has been going to the mosque with the
Ozanam chaplain. Mohammed still has a way to go but has
moved back with his aunt, will continue in school, and will work with
the Family Focus and After Care Programs to continue making progress
toward becoming a successful citizen in his community.
John - John had
been in the system for much of his life. He came to the Ozanam
school through a residential program at another Cornerstones of
Care agency in which he had proven to be very successful. His family
came together during his time at Ozanam, and he was able to return
to live with them successfully throughout the school
year. During his time in the Day Treatment Program, John's attitude
and behavior continued to improve. His social behavior improved
so much that he was voted the "most trustworthy" and "the
most popular" in his class. He was elected as Senior Class
President, learned the benefits of being a good role model, and
took the part very seriously. John also participated in the
Spiritual Life Program while at Ozanam and served in the Men of
Faith Program where he mentored other residents. John was released
from Ozanam and will attend public school in the fall.
Chris - Chris came from a family that put very negative pressures on him. He was very low functioning and
was very dependent on the people around him. From the
combined effect of being wrapped up in drugs and the having negative family pressures, he
has come as far as to be living on his own in the Pathways Program.
Chris started in a residential dorm unit on the Ozanam campus but was
quickly transitioned into the group home in order to prepare him for
independent living. Moving back into his destructive family was not
an option that was even kept open by Ozanam therapists, and therefore,
he would need to learn not only to control his behavior, but also
life skills such as keeping an apartment, feeding himself, and taking
care of himself. During his time in the group home, Chris learned
independence. Learning how to cook for himself, clean up after himself,
maintain positive social relationships, and control his behavior
internally, Chris was transferred into the Pathways Transitional Living
Program in midtown Kansas City where he is excelling in his forward
steps. Chris now lives by himself, maintains employment and will
graduate from high school. At Pathways, adolescents learn how
to navigate the bus system, get and maintain employment, and live
on their own. Participants in this program, kids like Chris who have
been in "the system" their whole lives, learn the things
that most kids learn from their parents. Not growing up with a
functioning family,
Chris missed out on many of the things that kids learn from their
parents. While other kids were learning to drive, Chris was learning
to deal with his behavior problems and to deal with the negative impact
his family had on him. Ozanam has enabled Chris to become independent,
hold down a good job and finish school.
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